Patti Digh

(silver writing mine...)

I posted a blog entry a while back

about an awesome book that I had been reading...

you remember, "life is a verb" by Patti Digh.

The one that Jane sat me in a chair and placed in my hands...?

OK, you're remembering now.

Good.

Anyway, today (what a beautiful, sunny, crisp day

to meet a few wonderful people)

I went back to Jane's shop

for a book reading

a book signing,

which I had rather call

"Let's make a new friend day".

Patti Digh was there, reading from that insightful book,

and just generally inspiring all of us to take the time

to Live An Intentional Life.

In reading the book,

I saw that Patti had encouraged the readers

to write in the book (yikes!)

to make it "our book"...

to interact with the words that she had written,

to take the ideas or the lessons that she was offering us

to a higher level.

I secured a silver Sharpie (which writes wonderfully on the slick surface of the page)

and began readin' and writin'...

I underlined words that resonated with me...

I circled passages that spoke to my heart...

I wrote her notes when I was fearful

of my reaction to different "actions" that she suggested...

I wrote out excuses NOT to do them...

I wrote out my responses to the exercises...

and I also drew lines and arrows pointing to quotes that I loved

or stories that brought me to tears...

I wrote out my heart

and I placed that heart right on the pages of that precious book.

You MUST get this book, my friends.

It will touch you in places

that you feared were closed off...

places that you didn't care to awaken again.

But it will touch you in places that you NEED to be touched...

wake up the generosity that

resides within you.

Give Patti Digh an opportunity

to touch your shoulder,

turn you around

and make you look in the mirror at

your own reflection.

And Patti, you ROCK.

And Mr. Brilliant,

I enjoyed sitting with you and Tess outside

on that quaint little bench, looking at my book...

our actions screaming how much we adore your wife

and her way with words.

I'm looking forward to reading more of those precious words.

Words, words, words...

I've seen several blogs and newsletters lately

that have encouraged everyone to Pick A Word for 2009.

I started a list...(see my photos)

Being a little anal, I began looking the words up in the dictionary...

just to make sure that I really, really liked the things that

The Word encompassed.

Just to make sure that there wasn't some Hidden Meaning somewhere...

Well, one thing led to another and I ended up with four pages of Really Good Words!

Part of it was that I like to write words...

go ahead and laugh, I know it sounds funny

but those of you out there who enjoy it too

will understand how I got carried away.

I actually like the arrangement of all

those great Words...

that would be a great mixed media piece, now wouldn't it?

OK, on to the actual post...

A few of my Most Favorite Words were

Cultivate

Foster

Intent

Purpose

I do have some very specific goals this year.

I started a new journal last year,

a neat handmade one, at the beginning of the year.

Fabric, of course, with hand painted pages.

Spiral bound with my cool Bind It All.

I wrote a little bit and then listed three goals

for that year.

I won't go into the specifics but I am glad/proud/pleased

to say that I met my goals.

I must be honest and say this as well...

I didn't make them TOO difficult, well...hmmmm...

Maybe it is in hind sight that I say that.
When I wrote them, I knew that they would require work.

I personally don't mind hard work at all.

I like it actually. It's good for people.

But what I'm trying to say is that I feel like I

could have done so much more than what I DID accomplish last year.

Part of the goal setting, the planning was based on Fear.

How, you say?

I was afraid that I wouldn't reach my goal,

so I set the bar a little lower than I should have...

That is Fearful Planning.

So I decided that THIS year,

I will set my goals without the burden of Fear.

I will set a few goals based totally on my sense of

adventure...that wild abandonment that I have been known for.

I'm going to reach so far that my arm might stretch a bit.

You know why?

Because I can.

Seriously...I mean that

I am Capable of Dreaming, of Seeking More,

of a Firm Determination.

Or we could call it "A Firmness of Purpose".

When I first began looking at the definitions

of all those yummy words that I wrote down,

there was a couple of words that were repeated in several definitions...

If you look closely at the journal pages

you will see that Promote is written several times.

Cherish, Care, Purpose...all repeated several times.

Aren't those wonderful words?

Look them up in the dictionary.

Then begin following the thread of words...

look up the words that are in the definition that you just looked up.

I especially loved the definition of

FOSTER

PURPOSE

CULTIVATE

Read these definitions...

THINK about what they mean to YOU.

Leave me a message, email me but let me know

how these words make you feel.

I'm going to say it again (even at the risk of repeating myself)

2009 is going to be a wonderfully Uplifting Year.

I will have a "Firmness of Purpose" this year.

I will reach out in Love.

I will believe that my fellow man

is as precious as a new born babe.

And in practicing just that one thing,

my life will change.

My heart will grow.

My smile will be bigger.

I will love my neighbor as myself.

And this year, I will love myself,

warts and all.